Sunday, June 21, 2015

Father's Day Adventures - Traveling Opportunity

Montana has molded me into a soul that discovers.

For that matter, since I've arrived in this lovely 41st State of the Union, I can't help but search for the road that goes "higher" or those roads that are unpaved.

But this is not the story of Simone.

Today, Father's Day, JT and I wandered up a known road - trying to find paths that we didn't  take the first time around when, much to JT's frustration, we happened upon a bicyclist who slowed our progression.  JT didn't want to pass him because we had already seen multiple ATV riders on narrow curves - ... so the jeep slowed... and slowed... uphill...

"Wait til' this next turn," I told him.  Then you can pass.

And we did... and we both glanced at this bicyclist - wondering, 'what in the world is he doing this far, this high up... '

And we kept going.

Nearing a clearing in the woods, continuing up the mountain, - we stopped to let Dexter run.  After 20-25 minutes I glanced behind our parked, bikini-less Jeep and said.. "Look.  There he is again."

Walking now, his mountain bike alongside him, was the man we followed and passed before.

He called out, "You wouldn't have any extra water, would you?"

... A side note, for those who have not traveled with me...  I pack like we're going into war, or the forest, or Carlsbad Caverns, or the Grand Canyon, or... just go with me...  it's how I'm made... I'm predispositioned to be the person who packs with "what if... " in mind...  

"Yes, we have water," JT called to the man.  And so they worked out filling a bit from the ice chest and and a bit from our water reserve.

The stranger mentioned, "There aren't many signs around here.  I think I missed my turn to Lincoln."  JT glanced at me - I looked around.  We have learned that most Montana folks don't typically take well to correction or direction - we explained we were recent transplants from Texas and JT offered the man one of our blankets (stored in the back of the Jeep) - he declined, thanked us for the water and continued UPHILL on his way.

JT and I loaded up Dexter, looked forward at the bicyclist and discussed, "Lincoln is not this way."  "Not on this road."  "Do you think he can fit in the jeep with his bike?"  "Think we can get Dexter in the front and he and his bike in the back?"  ...

I said, thinking of the determined men and my own determined soul - "Let's just go and we'll keep our eye out for him..."  And so we did...  We went up and up - on old paved roads - on roads that took us to the first Mason gathering of Montana (1862?) ...  We walked around, took photos, scolded Dexter for moving logs to get mice or small animals .. and then we headed on our way...

And then... we saw him again... passing....

"You sure you're okay?"  "It's going to rain soon."

He said, at the top of this mountain, "I'm okay, I have a down-sleeping bag here..."  He pointed to a pink bag covering a pack on the back of his bike... for that matter, he had a pink bag protecting items on the front of his bike... and pink and silver strands on another area...

"Okay... "  "Be safe," we offered...

As we drove past, and JT decided to travel a road that was not of my choosing, we discussed the man again... "Do you think he'll be okay?"  "It's awfully cold up here..."  "Did you notice the pink?"  "Maybe it's for breast cancer awareness..."

I mentioned, "Did you see the camera he had recording us the last time we passed?"  "Was that a camera?"  "Yes, yes it was...."

And so we drove on - discovering roads that we have never traveled upon, drops of rain falling upon us ... "Look," JT mentioned - "there is a great camping spot."   A few miles down the lane - crowded with trees, bushes, flowers - we look to the left and another camping spot presented itself.   Soon - a mile or more - we see a more traveled road and look left and right  -   "Right" we decide, and off we went.

There were areas of cattle - lots of calves with their mothers, cattle guards, more calves, more mothers - a few bulls - another cattle guard - we realized a spot left of another T in the road and pulled over to take a break and do what nature requires.... about 10 minutes into our looking around and breaking I look at the crest on the rise we just crossed and ...

"There he is again!"  We both watch as the man on the bike worked his way through the calves and their moms - he crossed the last cattle guard and then peddled our way...

"Is it dinner time?" he called....  JT and I both waved - smiled... welcomed this man that we kept passing and worrying over along this day's adventure.

He told us his name.  He was, in fact, recording part his adventures for a movie he was making.  There was a ride from El Paso to Alberta Canada - he had completed this ride last year, but this year decided to handle the Montana portion of the ride - his bearings were a bit discombobulated from the Garmin that was giving him great and not so great directions.  He has a wife in Detroit, a daugther in Kalispell and was quite kind and agreeable.

He listened to our story - offered us his business card - and we refilled his water reservoir.

Before he went on his way he mentioned, "Make sure you email me and I'll send you a link to the movie - you're the people who saved me on Priest Pass..."

And on his way he went...  we turned around and returned home on roads that we had already discovered...  because it's Father's Day and JT wanted to watch a certain baseball game.

... and I sit here sending our prayers and good tidings to this traveler... I wish him well, I wish him good speed, God speed ... may kind souls cross his path.

And that, dear reader, is my blog for the day.

May you always offer water, be kind to strangers, and be aware of the opportunity to serve others.

Much love - it's crazy beautiful here....

- Simone


Wednesday, April 29, 2015

WARNING: Incline, Laughter, Amazing Locals, Corporate America, and You

Random blog - ready?

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True story.  You're going to laugh.  It's funny now - it was not funny then.

In my broken ankleness, I have this knee scooter thing.  You put your knee on it and wheel around pushing with your other leg.  It's not too bad - why didn't I have one of these sooner. (Side note: it was cheaper for me to just order one online than it was to do a rental with insurance.  Amazon: $170.  DME Purchase: $900 or $75 a month.)  Anywho - it's difficult to get around still, have to focus on where I'm going, take the turns, can't move too fast.

The cool part is, in the apartment building, I can scoot off fast and then take the turns with both legs up.  That's fun.

(Looking down from Mt. Helena - see the green arrow - that's where we are...)


(Looking up from downtown, Last Chance Gulch Street)


What is NOT fun - not fun at all - (but funny) is going down a slope.  Uphill or slope, not difficult, just push, push, push.... whew... what a workout.  Going downhill you have to use the hand brakes and your foot to 'skid' to a stop.

A few days ago, I decided to go out by myself.  I had not done this yet, but was determined.

Exiting the apartment - difficult because I go down a hall, turn right, turn right again - open one of the double doors to the loading dock of the apartments, have to lift the scooter up the one step to the outside, put my weight on the doors, lift, get on the scooter.  Up the loading area - up the sidewalk - think "UP" - we live close to the bottom of Mount Helena - it's a bit of an incline.

So I push off, up the sidewalk, up the sidewalk - thinking how thankful I am for Ben, the personal trainer, for strengthening my core and legs for this broken ankle adventure.  Dexter, the best dog in the world, is following me and watching me carefully.  We make it to the back sidewalk of the apartment, walking/scooting - he does his business - and after 10 minutes or so I decide to walk back.

Rolling down the sidewalk, brake - brake - foot skid - brake - brake - food skid.  Brake, brake - foot skid... too fast, too fast, too fast!

Soon I find myself out of control, the handlebars are agitating erratically and I realize...

"@#%^... I'm going down."

And I did.  I fell hard - on the cement wall of the loading dock and the ground.  Immediately I attempt to right myself and Dexter is doing his best to inspect me and ascertain my condition.

Looking around - knowing SOMEONE saw this - I wheeled back into the building, apartment, couch... and assessed my condition.

Skinned knee and palm... HU-MIL-I-ATED.

I laid my head back with a racing mind, "Who does this?"  "Did anyone see me?"  "Did I mess up my knee more?"  "These brakes stink!"  "AHHH!"

I am clumsy.  In fact, I'm the president of falling and injuring - but I sure have the best intentions in getting to the places I want to go.

This entire story - play it in your mind again - and now that a week has passed - this is really funny.  It's movie, ironic funny.

The short story - downhill is more than a knee scooter, broken ankle Simone can handle.

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How's everyone?  May is right around the corner and there are so many plans for June, August and September.

These Montana friends have been out of this world awesome.  (Out of this world!!)  I consider myself blessed - loved - and thankful.  (Very thankful.)

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I'm really blessed that my employer is allowing me to work from home.  My department does not typically allow the long-term work from home experience but my new boss (and former boss) made this happen.

When I started working for this company our bestest friends said, "You're not going to like it.  Corporate America is not your speed."

I think, in any other circumstance, they would have likely been right.  But, crazy enough, I get this company.   It gets me.

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That is all.

I wish you stories that make you laugh - make you thankful - and make you challenged.

And, hey, there is crazy light and love coming all the way from Montana - close to the bottom of Mt. Helena.... which is more steep than I realized.

- Simone

Sunday, April 19, 2015

Week One of Broken and Blessed - and grumpy

I have had a pity party for one this week.

It's ridiculous really.

There are people who have known pain and hunger all their life - and one week of a broken ankle and I'm an odd version of ridiculousness.

If you don't know - early in the 21st Century (it sounds good outlining it like this) - I broke my other (left) ankle many years ago.  I didn't realize it was broken at the time - I was trying to be a tough woman - so I didn't recognize the injury.

Over 8 days later an orthopedic surgeon advised me as follows: "Your ankle was broken and now it is obliterated after walking on it for so long..."  He sent me to a specialist in Dallas - the coolest doctor who had just rebuilt Emitt Smith's ankle - and then he rebuilt my ankle.

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I am frustrated with this current injury.  I've had weeks of working out with a personal trainer - I've worked on walking around this beautiful Montana area and I've made it a point to adventure - DagNabIt - this just ticks me off.

I know I'm clumsy, and if you know, you know I'm clumsy - but I just don't have time for this.

This past Wednesday the doctor was looking at my ankle and then turned his attention to my knee.  "We'll look at the ankle now  - but next week, we'll have to look at this knee."  I must admit to sighing at him.

A funny part of this story is his request that I explain what happened when I fell...

"I fell - and then I jumped up...."

I told him - just as I've told so many doctors and teachers before...

You have 3 brothers - and frankly - if you fall - you'd best jump up and say, "I'm fine!"  ... there's no other option.

So pity party for one - I'm disliking this downtime - a lot - but I realize how blessed I am.

And, I am blessed.  I realize this.

Much love from the Montana State.

Which is currently broken - but loving you muchly.

- Simone

Wednesday, April 15, 2015

So many topics - SQUIRREL

Having one of those days where my mind is jumping around from topic to topic - so I thought I'd blog.

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Anyone see the news about this "free-range" parenting concept?  Otherwise known as, raised before 1985?  In the same vein of thinking, I ran across this Time Magazine article:    http://time.com/3720541/how-to-parent-like-a-german/

We all know - or if you don't know - I'm partial to my Germans.  I say my Germans because in 2007 this beautiful 15 year old girl named Melanie, a German exchange student, came to live with a single mom in West Texas.   There are so many great stories - I'll need to start writing them down - but Melanie became/is my family.  Her parents and grandparents are my family.  My daughter spent 6 weeks with Wolfgang, Karin and Melanie and, later, I spent 10 days in Germany with them.

I fell in love with Germany.  I completely love the Stoelck family as my own - and the article hit on topics I saw with Melanie - and what I observed with parents in Germany.  I don't understand the helicopter parenting  - I think it raises extremely dependent children and that worries me for future generations.  My parents, although not a model for great parenting, let us run and explore and walk home from school - we survived and are all amazingly independent people.

I made a lot of mistakes as a parent.  (Oh, so many)  But - I hope I instilled a sense of independence and understanding of the limitless power of a "can do" spirit.

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It snowed here yesterday.  I missed it because I was in a drugged stupor and the blinds in the apartment were closed all day.  My neighbors, co-workers, and friends continue to pour support upon JT and I: yesterday lunch was delivered, then fresh bread from a local bakery, early grey chocolate cake and a foot-scooter device that lets me scoot around with my foot up instead of balancing around and hopping with two-sticks.

It is very hard for me to accept help.  I'm learning.

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I'm forming a blog about man-bashing - I'm tired of it.

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In June, our best couple friends will be here with their kids.  In August, our two middle kids will be here.  In September, we'll be headed back to Texas for a Simpson Family Reunion near Waco.  I've got to get healed up so I can join in all this fun.

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That's it.  More later - love to you from a broken, but blessed, Montana.

- Simone

Monday, April 13, 2015

Accepting Blessings - With A Little Help From My Friends

So - yesterday I fell.  This is not unusual.  I fall.

The doctor saw a fracture in my heel bone and informed me that I broke off the tip of the ankle bone.

This is not the point of this writing...

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In Texas, should this occur, I would have Athena, Kim, Diane, Rebecca, Becky, the kids, and so many other friends and family close that, should I need something, I know they'd be there.

Falling and breaking something in Montana - what I've found - is a pretty amazing group of friends here.  ... I am so blessed.

Tonight, Jami, a friend I met through work, showed up with roasted chicken, flowers, soup and more... My department pitching in to take care of me while I'm down and out.

I've had so many offers from local Montana friends -  various forms of support - it humbles me.  It makes me less homesick and more appreciative of these great people who have crossed my path and planted themselves in my heart.

I am not very good of asking for help or accepting it - but - really - this day is a reminder that part of living a balanced life is being receptive to and accepting blessings.

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I have lots of blog topics floating through my mind... lucky for me, I'm going to have the downtime to make those blogs happen.

Love to you.  In my drugged stupor - just crazy good love.

- Simone


Wednesday, March 25, 2015

Random Blog - Jeep - Daisy - Force - 100 Bucket List & More

Many moons ago, I blogged in a world called MySpace.  I blogged a lot.  Often they were random observations and thoughts.

Today - welcome to such a blog.

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Folks.  I purchased a different jeep.  Gone is the grey Jeep Liberty - say hello to "Daisy" ...



Got her back from the mechanic today (who, by the way, thinks we got one heck of a deal) and I'm ready to put her 4WD through its paces.  A bit Southern Redneck extreme?  Maybe.  My dear husband has asked me numerous times (really, expressed sincere interest) about removing the "01" ...

Uhm. No.  It screams for a new horn, a good speaker system and a new bikini top for the summer.  (The bikini top is for the Jeep.)

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I hired a personal trainer.  Like a guy who stands there and counts while I sweat and shake each rep.  It's absolutely fantastic.  It's hard.  The first week I thought I wouldn't be able to continue because I hurt so bad - this week, I still hurt - but not as bad!  My friend, Rebecca, and I were discussing this process and she mentioned that we are each a force in our own right.

**Que Bells**

#Iamaforce.

It's difficult going from super focused on kids, family, work, friends to ::brake squeal:: ... myself.

As I was taking a lap around the block today at break I realized I have had every excuse why I don't take care of me - gotta take care of ___________.

Note to self:  "Hey, you - work on thyself."

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Texas.

What is up with your weather?  Snow?  Rain.  90 in March.

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Spring and Summer are approaching - or are on my very doorstep.  I have outdoor fever.  Roads I've never found, questionable paths that prove to be gems in their own right.  Last year I found a list of the Montana 100 Bucket List.

http://www.greatfallstribune.com/story/life/my-montana/2014/04/23/a-montana-bucket-list-100-things-every-montanan-should-do/8061087/

I'll do my best - to do my best.

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And - YOU - man - have you taken stock yet of your possibilities?

Get to it!

Much love from Montana and an ever-expanding Simone heart.

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Sunday, February 1, 2015

Age. Reason. Surely.

It irritates me greatly when people express their opinion and then tell me it's based on their (surperior) experience or advanced age.

My grandmother might have been appalled (or apetered) at my point of view, but don't tell me that your advanced years makes you wiser - because, likely,  I'll lay out my life experience to compare to your own.

Sure, sure - I may have the years that you click your tongue at... I may have the years that you don't understand -  but I am sick and tired - and fit to be tied - that my life is less because of my years.

You don't know my path.

After years of trying to be less than local opinions, I simply find that I'm quite fierce.

In fact, I'm likely to be the one who stands in front of the line to be plowed over - only to stand again.

Yes.

And yes.

You have earned every year, every scar, and every single pain and heartache.

Let it mold and meld you.

But please, don't believe your individual 365 days multiplied by what you have, gives you a creative base to launch and judge others from.

Please don't.  Please.  Even if I ended the sentence with a preposition.

I'm fierce because I survived and love in such a way - I am faulted because I lived and loved in the same measure.

I'm not close to half a decade - but I'll be damned if I don't try to live twice as long.

... venting - ventng because my young years makes me fierce.

(and I love this about my life)

(and I surely love this about you)

because -

- Simone